LGBTQ Affirming Therapy in New York
In-Person & Virtual Therapy with LGBTQ Therapists Across NYC and New York State
A Safe Space to Be Seen and Supported
You may be seeking therapy for many reasons: anxiety, perfectionism, work burnout, ADHD, or relationship stress. Or maybe you're exploring your gender identity, navigating a major transition, or processing the impact of discrimination. Whatever brings you in, you deserve to do that work in a space where you don’t have to educate your therapist — or hide any part of yourself.
At Aspire Psychotherapy, we offer therapy grounded in lived experience, cultural humility, and deep clinical expertise. Whether you identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, nonbinary, intersex, or questioning, you’re welcome here.
Our LGBTQ therapists provide affirming care for teens, adults, and couples — in person on the Upper East Side and in the Hudson Valley, or virtually across New York State. If you’re searching for an LGBTQ therapist near you, we’re here to make that connection safe and seamless.
LGBTQ+ Therapy That Supports the Whole You
Therapy isn’t about fixing your identity — it’s about healing from the pressure to justify it. Many LGBTQ+ individuals carry the impact of minority stress, misgendering, or subtle invalidations that accumulate over time. These aren’t personal problems — they’re responses to a society that hasn’t always offered safety.
That’s why affirming therapy matters. Whether you're here to talk about your sexuality or gender — or you just want a therapist who gets it while you work on your goals — our team provides that space.
What We Work On Together
LGBTQ+ clients come to therapy for many reasons. And sometimes, it’s not about a crisis. You just want a space to feel grounded, seen, and understood — without fear of judgment. Some of the issues we support include:
Perfectionism, imposter syndrome & high-functioning anxiety
Executive functioning challenges & ADHD
Sex positivity (kink, BSDM, poly, ENM affirming)
Gender identity, nonbinary, gender expansive and transgender issues
Coming out (or choosing not to)
Navigating living in this society
LGBTQ+ youth and family support
Religious or cultural rejection
Complex trauma and PTSD
LGBTQ+ relationship therapy or gay couples counseling
Burnout, career pressure & identity mismatches at work
Why Work with an LGBTQ Therapist at Aspire?
You want therapy that honors your identity — without needing to explain it
You’re looking for LGBTQ marriage counseling or support for non-traditional relationships
You’re exploring transition or gender expression with a trans-affirming therapist
You’re navigating life stress, trauma, or ADHD — and want a safe space to do the work
You’re a parent of an LGBTQ+ teen seeking identity-affirming support
You’re tired of having to explain yourself to straight or cisgender therapists
You’re tired of searching “LGBTQ therapist NYC” and not knowing who’s actually safe to talk to
Our LGBTQ+ Clinical Expertise
Aspire Psychotherapy isn’t just affirming — we’re leaders in LGBTQ+ clinical care. Our team includes nonbinary, transgender, queer clinicians and affirming allies who are:
Members of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health)
Trainers for other mental health professionals in LGBTQ+ affirmative care
Specialists in working with nonbinary, transgender, and gender-expansive clients
Sensitive to the intersection of gender, race, neurodivergence, disability, class, and immigration status
Meet Our Directors
Dr. Anya Scolaro, Psy.D., (she/her)
Clinical Director
Brie Scolaro, LCSW, (they/them)
Director
Client Testimonials
“Brie was fantastic! They were kind, empathetic, and patient. They also gave me multiple tangible strategies to address my anxiety in different situations. I can’t recommend them enough if you’re looking for support!”
“Dr. Scolaro is an incredibly gifted therapist who has helped me learn and practice vital CBT skills that have changed my life.”
Our Office Locations
We offer telehealth and hybrid therapy sessions at two locations in New York State. Reach out today to schedule your intake appointment and start seeing your therapist remotely or in-person.
Upper East Side Office
312 E 85th St Suite 1A, New York, NY 10028
Upstate New York Office
Healing Arts Center, 3457 Main St Floor 2, Stone Ridge, NY 12484
